When I reflect on Christmas, I am instantly transported back to my childhood growing up in Maryland.  You see, Christmas is still as magical for me, as when I was ten years old and begging my parents for the Barbie Dream House.  Although I am older, I still cherish the moments and the reason why we celebrate on the 25th.  In fact, as I grow older, I relish in the facts that I can give back to those around me through sharing kind words of encouragement,

The real joys of Christmas, however, did not impact me until I was 19 and completing my first social work internship at a local senior center.   I was assigned to work with a woman, who had a brain tumor.  My supervisor informed me that no one could ever reach out to her and that her bitterness would drive me away from a field that I felt was my true calling.  This woman definitely did not seem interested in having a college sophomore keep her company and help with counseling.  After all, I had no experience and was still a “kid.”

The first two weeks were a challenge, but I was determined to help her cope and adapt to her situation.   After the two weeks, we forged a bond and I decided to share something that brought a great deal of joy and comfort into my life:  cross stitching.  We began working on a butterfly pattern, and she began to share her experiences with me.  The first butterfly was completed one week from Christmas, and I remember how she smiled and gave me a hug, thanking me for bringing joy into her life.  She was joyous, no longer bitter, and the staff talked about the difference I made during the semester in this woman’s progress.

Little did I know that she would not be around after this moment.   Upon walking into the center after Christmas, I noticed something different.  The woman had died on Christmas morning.  I was in shock, but I look back and reflect on how she taught me about the joys of sharing with others.  Even though, this may not be totally reflective of a Christmas story.  I learned more about the joys of giving back to those in need through this moment.  You see, God blessed us with his son, who transformed the world in so many ways and brought love into a needy world.   When you give to others, you are glorifying God and reflecting upon the true meaning of Christmas.

**This is the first post in the Christmas Miracles Series that will be running on Crystal Clear Conservative during the month of December.**